For the record,

For the record,

I will not be the bible teacher that keeps selling this water version of find a man, build a man, seek a man.

(it's running out)

God brought Eve to Adam not Adam to Eve.  

You are not desperate, lonely, and in need.

You are complete, whole, esteemed.

I want to teach you how to seek you 1st and not a relationship. Being in a relationship were you are both loved, respected and honored is great. But I am afraid we have started this broken relationship syndrome (wanting the cuteness of a relationship but not the commitment of one.) were commitment is not even on the table. We have learn how to  be great relationship starter but not good relationship keepers. We have a learned behavior of putting a lot effort into building relationship (What we want) but not maintaining them (what we need). We have learned how to build others up and forgot how to build up  ourselves. And if we continue to give out love that we do not give ourselves, it will leave us feeling empty and used.

What God has for you is for you.  Become so busy with developing yourself that you stumble into your partner on that path.  (The best things in life happen unexpected) Develop yourself in such  a way that you find someone to match your better you.

Learn how to be whole alone so no one has to come into your life to complete your wholeness.

Be the best you for you, not someone else.

Don't give someone all of the benefits you are not willing to give to yourself.