If I Don't Need it,Then Nobody Else Does.

Paul said that he learned to be all things to all people in an effort to win them to Christ
(1 Corin 9:19-Twenty-two) He adapted to his surrounding rather than expecting everything and everyone to adapt to him.  

We tend to think that if we don't need something then nobody does.

Everyone is fine with how things are until they have to change or adjust themselves for someone else. This is the true spirit of giving as long as everyone is doing what you want them to do then everything is fine. But when we have to change to meet someone else's needs their should not be a problem.

Many relationship fail because we don't make an effort to give each other what he or she needs. We tend to think that if we don't need something then nobody else does.